My dining room is stressing me out, and has been for quite a while! I'm longing for a cleaner, simpler look. Time to de-clutter and edit.
When Bonnie Broten was here, she thought the same thing. We talked about removing the curtains and leaving just the bamboo shades. I thought I heard her mumble the word "dated." Gasp!
So, as much as I love this brown floral fabric, I think it has to be retired.
I'm not sure if it's because there is too much of it, or if it is just "over."
I realize that it's weighing me down!
The brown screen in the corner is also weighing me down, even though I love it still.
Then there is the chandelier.
Yes, it's pretty. But, I am envisioning something lighter, airier, less feminine.
I decided to remove the slipcovers off the parsons chair to reveal the poor chair in her underwear and get a feel for the room without flowers. Not pretty! New linen slipcovers would be gorgeous!
Down came the floral drapes. The French chairs look great on the ends of the table.
Now the grandfather clock looks ridiculous where it is!
Perhaps it would look better in the corner or even the living room.
Speaking of the living room, it also is weighing me down. But, we won't go there!
Aha! Maybe the living room drapes would look good in the dining room....
I'm still loving my wallpaper.
This is definitely a lighter look, but the drapes really are better in the living room. Now, I've created a huge mess!
On our way back from Asti, Bonnie and I stopped in at Restoration Hardware's flagship store where we got samples of linen drapery fabrics.
We both thought this Belgian linen would be nice in the dining room.
RH has just introduced this loose weave unlined burlap, which is on sale. I'll admit, I was intrigued. Perhaps it could go in the living room, freeing up the living room floral to go in the dining room.
Is your head spinning yet?
Do you see why my dining room is stressing me out?
Thank you for the therapy session. I ended up putting everything back, and will probably talk about making changes for another year! After all, I'm my own worst client!
You have to admit, it does look good for fall and winter coming up...
I'm joining Cindy at My Romantic Home for Show and Tell Friday.
When and if you change the dining room it will look like everyone else's home. I love your taste and feel the fabrics are cozy and rich. I am so tired of linen/burlap and sisal/seagrass and no one thinking individually. I find those rooms rather boring. Everyone is doing the same thing. Your chandy is beautiful with the wallpaper. :) Is that being removed too? Than goodness you are going to think this through. Find a way to at least keeep some of these individual pieces intact and let your personality shine.
It's always easier to re-do someone else's rooms. You are not emotionally attached! I'll stick with you as you deliberate the changes.
Although I am sure any changes you make will be wonderful, I think your home is absolutely beautiful and unique just the way it is. Your home is an inspiration.
You had me cracking up by saying your chair was now just in its underwear. I never thought about that one before! I do love the fabric pattern in there, but agree a more streamlined look with the green wallpaper might be a nice change. I think a solid cream would be nice on the windows and chairs. You could still use your accessories to provide more color and texture. I have cream colored drapes in many of my rooms and love the versatility they give me. However, this could wait till Spring. The colder weather might feel better to be wrapped in all that luxurious brown fabric!
Right away my thought was to KEEP the browns and florals for Fall and Winter and then maybe in the Spring, lighten up. Call me crazy but dated or not, I love those chairs and drapes! Always have. BUT, you have to live there and be happy so do what pleases YOU! I love every single thing you do!!!! XO, Pinky
I love your cozy and warm dining room. Always have. We tend to want to go with the latest trend. I certainly understand wanting change though. I am the queen of change.
I don't think you should change it. Your dining room is one of the reasons I started reading your blog. I agree with Dianne, don't follow the trends and look like everyone else. Your home is gorgeous and individual. Who cares if something is "dated"? How can classic looks get dated anyway? I struggle with the same ideas, but I always go back to he cozy looks of my home.
I am facing the same dilemia and it sure isn't easy, one room seems to draw on another.
This is all very beautiful...but if you want to change things, maybe changing the wallpaper would take care of it all. Have you thought of that?
Darlene isn't amazing how one thing leads to another and another!!
I would love a lighter fresher look, however be you, even if it is a lighter floral. I love linen, it is so lovely; I just know how unique you are!
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Oh, you're so right...it's easy to make changes in someone else's home, but I wait so long thinking about fabrics for myself that by the time I go to buy it, it's discontinued, and I have to start all over again. I wonder if it's the textured shades that are adding the weight to your room. Did you try it with just the drapery panels? If you need privacy, you could always add a gorgeous sheer that could be drawn as needed. I just keep reading that pinched pleats are the 'new trend thing'. It's beautiful, whatever you decide. It warms the cockles of my heart to know that a professional goes through the same decorating quagmire as I do. Thanks! Cherry Kay
I'm chiming in that I like the brown drapes. It has a great feel moving into fall. You can always get a second set of light drapes for the spring.
Why not move the clock to the corner, the screen to another room, and just get a new chandelier? (I can't tell you how many times we've moved chandeliers around this house, I seem to like changing with the seasons!)
You can send me the old chandelier for my bedroom...!
I agree completely with the first commenter!!!
I love your style, its so cozy, warm and inviting.
I absolutely love your drapes too. I do think your french chairs look great at the ends of your table!
Do whatever makes you happy!!!
Hi D, You and I have had this conversation so you know how I feel. Your home is uniquely YOU!! Don't fall into the RH trap of all linen everywhere, touches of it are beautiful and I think the drapes would look great, but you need some pattern in your life it is just who you are and who you are my dear is wonderfully warm and inviting and talented, xo Kathysue
I have to agree with others who say keep that gorgeous brown floral fabric on your chairs and drapes. It is so rich, warm and inviting. To me it says: Come in, sit down and be ready for a great meal.
At most I would wait until Spring to bring in linen drapes and slips and then go back to the floral when Fall comes again. And maybe by then the RH look will be out anyway.
I also agree you have a stunning style of your own that brings us here to see what you are doing next. It is that warm, cozy, rich and textured look that makes your rooms you.
I am in absolute agreement with your first commenter.
I love this room!
I love your room just the way it is. It's so warm,and cozy.All the beautiful colors,and texture.The chandelier is gorgeous.You put your heart in your home,and it shows.Everything you did has your elegant stamp on it.
hey, I know Bonnie!!!
I got some great ideas for lightening up!
Send me that screen and I'll Sweidish it up! you won't even recognize it! It could also be disassembled and made the two end pieces made in to shutters.
perhaps take the crystals off the chandie ... just for fun
to see what happens to the look ...
maybe remove all items of centerpiece and place
one large creamy bowl or sliver dome cloche ... less piece-y ... and yes, the rattan shades can carry the windows alone.
you know me girl, once you ask , I'll tell
and btw, Kathysue is spot on!
love ya like crazy
Nooooo! Your dining room is beautiful, I copied it in my own home, I hope you take that as a compliment (:
Delores I love your dining room AS IS, but I totally get it when you feel like you need a change! How about one not so dramatic though. I love your brown floral fabric but if you feel like it's to much maybe just change the drapery for now. To me your dining room looks like a picture in a magazine! Martina
What? No... No... Don't give into the neutral trends.
I already had this talk with Artie...I did it and regreted it. Now I am stuck for a while. It looks great... but not my style...just cookie cutter blog land style. Your dining room is fabulous and put the screen back... it's timeless.
I look at your blog often but this is the first time I commented...
Slap... Slap... Pull yourself together dear...you've been blogmotized.
I couldn't help but comment... I love your blog... because it does give me an option for new and colorful inspiration... so tired of the blah blah blah... timeless speaks to me. Weighed down? I see "Welcome and sit down put some color in your life"
Just my thoughts...An ex-blogger...
PS. In some instances the definition of the term 'dated' means... The person speaking wants to put the color green in their pocket.... at your expense. However... This has a great benefit for those that don't go for trends but timeless interiors... Great flea market and thrift store castoffs!
One more thing... your house has a
'Ralph Lauren' feel... it doesn't get better than that. Okay...now I've said my peace.
Whew! I'm glad you decided to wait a while to change things. I agree your current look is great, especially for Fall and Winter. Maybe new changes for Spring or Summer? I DO love your current look for your home here, and I also love your Tuscan look in Asti. You have the best of both worlds. Stay true to yourself...it's "your look" that we've all fallen in love with...and Ralph Lauren's. :)
1. your room is beautiful as is... it's speaks of your special talent for design.
2. You want change - do it gradually. Changing one thing can make a big impact.
3. It's always easier to give advice than to make decisions.
4. Decluttering is a good thing. I am still working on that myself..
5. have fun!
I almost NEVER comment on blogs....but I have to chime in with the people who say KEEP the room essentially as it is! When I got the RH catalog I was in shock....it DEPRESSED me, the lack of color, the downright depressing industrial feel...it got pitched in the trash, and I have never done that before! I feel like anyone can do neutral, color is tougher, and more interesting...just my 2 cents. Rosie
I love your home. I think all creative people go through a process of board-om! I have gone through the same thing. I like what you have done. Just adding the new chairs and taking down the curtains looks great. I think you should keep the chandelier for now. It is unique. I think it will lighten up with all your new changes. Go for it.
I love this room. Don't dress it down to the plain linen look...That's okay in some cases, but this room is classic and deserves a level of elegance. If you do change up, keep it elegant! I'm actually surprised you have the wooden shades in there. Your clock is gorgeous and I love how you brought the curtain rods right up to the top of it. I guess I'm out of date but I could see some cream colored silk dupioni drapes in there.
HI Delores! Oh, poor darling - you're in distress! Well, let me tell you something - your home is gorgeous and it's you! Decorators have their place but your home is you and I love all of your beautiful draperies and your style! Just let your home be you! It's so elegant. I guess you can tell I'm a big fan of your decorating style!
Be a sweetie,
I love your style but understand getting tired of fabrics or certain looks. If it were my dining room (and it's not) I would keep the rich, brown floral drapes and change the wallpaper to a neutral, painted back drop. I've been in the same boat and it's not easy, but I love it once I've forged ahead! Your readers will enjoy the journey with you.
All the commenters make good points. A decorator is always her own worst client, and I think you are wise to think about it some more. The rooms are beautiful, and you have obviously made a significant investment in them. I am getting really tired of the ubiquitous linen/burlap/seagrass look -- because although it makes for some fetching eye candy in photos, I know that it would bore me to tears. I would be adding color and interesting things in no time, and I think you would, too, by looking at what you have done heretofore.
I understand your quandary & I can sooo relate. We need new living room chairs & I'm stuck.
I don't think your room looks dated at all, but instead its classic & timeless. I laughed at all that Lee had to say on the subject. ;-)
Your personal style is so interesting & I love seeing what you've come up with.
I say sleep on it awhile & like Marlis advised, do a little at a time & perhaps Spring would be a better time to lighten up, since your rooms look just PERFECT to me for the upcoming Thanksgiving & Christmas holidays.
I'm sure whichever way you go, it will look great. I'll be watching.
Whew! You had me nervous there for a minute. Your room is gorgeous the way it is, I love the brown florals and that chandelier is just delightful. Please don't go the way of all that burlap and linen in this house, it will take away all of its personality!!!! Also, don't dare get rid of that green velvet couch in the living room...:)
Oh I love your house just the way it is... it is so cozy and warm. You are my favorite blog. I would love to sit your living and dining room down in my house. Your decorating has been an inspiration to me. Because of you I got started collecting some of the Johnson Brothers China. I guess we all get tired and want change; but your house is just beautiful. The mix of patterns and textures. I know if you do change though it will be just as beautiful. Take care,Karen
As always your home is beautiful, but I think you should change it up if it's dragging you down. I recently had the same problem in my master bedroom. I just was not in love with it and it completely depressed me, so I took the plunge and painted, got some new linens and accessories and now I am completely loving it. I am really feeling so much better now, seriously. I think you would find that if you did go ahead and change some things you would feel better too.
Ohhhh my goodness! I LOVE your dining room!! LOVE LOVE it! And that fabric is one of my favorites!! I know whatever you do....I will LOVE....but I really do ADORE that floral fabric~!
Can't wait to see what you do!
It's me again....what if you just added a white or antique white piece in place of maybe the clock to lighten it up? by the way my house used to be all shabby chic and all light colors and I changed to your colors...we all have the same problems, we love change lol!
your rooms do have a "Ralph" feel to them which I adore. I also adore the Rh movement which is actually Swedish-Belgian in feel.
I completely agree that this is not the time to lighten up your home it is perfect for the upcoming season.
By spring you will probably have the inspiration of what to do. I love the wallpaper and think your
choice of drapery fabric was unexpected and gorgeous! If you had no doubts about making changes then it would be the right time. Just my two cents.
Hi, Delores. I love your dining room. I believe the brown floral on the chairs and curtains are a Ralph Lauren fabric. You don't see Ralph changing to a neutral linen Belgian look, do you??? While I like the Belgian trend and some of the Restoration Hardware merchandise in small doses, it may look dated in the next nano-second. Your house reflects your taste and the things you love -- confit pots, butter platters, vignettes, for heaven's sake. Live with what you love.
I love your room too. It's so warm. To be honest I've gotten bored with the burlap and grey. It's the same thing over and over again. Your room looks like a lovely room to have nice music, good food, candles and just feel safe and cozy. It doesn't get much better than that.
I like so many of the other bloggers love your room, I do not think it looks dated, I think it looks traditional and classic. One of the many reasons I love coming to your blog, your ideas and decor are tasteful, unique and traditional. They look like rooms that have evolved over years and was not purchased from a catalog lock stock and barrel. Your rooms do not look like the cookie cutter looks that can be seen everywhere in blogland.
I heard a great quote recently from one of Canada's most loved Interior Designers, Ray Staples, now well into her 90's. Addressing interior design students at an ARIDO meeting she said "where's the f'ing magic. Please Delores Read this post here by Margo Austin for more on Ray.
Seriously Delores, when I looked at that RH catalog...that's exactly what I thought. Your dining room is gorgeous. It works with all your lovely place settings. You can't switch to white plates and napkins now...we love your style.
Your rooms are stunning. They resonate the Charlotte Moss style of decorating. They are rich, warm, and inviting. I, for one, could sit in your dining room for hours. What a lovely talent you have!
I'm with everyone else who replied to your question(s). Keep what you have for now. You'll appreciate the feeling of comfort your decorating provides during the nippy months of the year. If you would like to 'lighten up' for Spring and Summer, I'd consider a lighter colored drapery panel and even think about a whimsical border to bring in extra color and tie it to the rest of the room. Have you ever considered looking at the Thibaut, Kravet, or Duralee Print fabric books? There are some wonderful prints that have depth (and even humor)? Many of those fabrics have gorgeous prints on paler backgrounds that would work beautifully with your wall paper.
Please take a look at Charlotte Moss' "Winter House" book. I think you'll find great inspiration there. Also consider William Yeoward "At Home". His dining room has the same richness as yours. He used unexpected colors and patterns to add a sense of lightness. Both books are easily found at Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
RH is definitely NOT you. Your style is evolved and personal. It is unique and it tells us a story about YOU. RH is off the shelf and a great place to begin for someone who is just starting to decorate (neutral backdrop).
Your home is beautiful. It is an inspiration!
I'm late to the convo, but I am one who loves mixing color and pattern. Lay it on! For whatever it's worth, if this were my dining room, I'd keep the florals. I think the fabric is rich, but still very cozy and inviting. Your look is timeless. Although I like the burlap and seagrass I think it's already peaked with it's popularity. I think too many people use it to the overkill point and then it just winds up being an overall boring, drab and unoriginal look.
I bought that fabric last year and am waiting to use it in my bedroom in my Palm Springs house...then I saw a glimpse of yours and asked if it was Waverly but I never heard back from you...now I can see the whole pattern and it is absolutely the one I have and I so love it in your home and can't wait to get it in mine...I have also thought about going all linen, neutral etc but that's not me, I love color and warm earthy tones and just swoon everytime I see your homes, you have such lovely taste and that is why I don't miss a post , and now after seeing so much of this pattern I know I lOVE it!
If you decide to get rid of your brown floral draperies, please let me know! I have been coveting that sort of pattern for years. I do have one condo bedroom in a similar print by Weathervane Hill.
Remember, the trends at Restoration Hardware are created by Merchants. They want to sell things. So they dream up stuff diametrically opposed to what we have, so we will buy. The design director also have no continuing relationship with a client, so they don't care if the client eventually can't live with the look. I can't figure out Who does buy from them. What are their demographics? If you are willing to spend over $5000 for a sofa, you might as well go custom. The people I know that could buy their things, would rather invest in antiques, or vintage modern stuff.j Ann
Remove the screen, center the clock between the french door outside trim and the wall where the screen was.
Live with that for a while. Cheers
Oh, I'm so happy you have decided to keep your room the way it is for Fall and Winter. and maybe longer... it is so beautiful, I don't think I'd ever want to change it. I hate to think that you cannot have your own "look" without someone saying it is dated. To me, lovely is just that... lovely..and your home is lovely and more. I would only change, if I was tired of it all, or fell in love with a different style.
I am so glad you left the dining room-It has a English country feel and is timeless-Don't get caught up in all the new fads...
I love your room the way it is. It is so personal. Those trendy rooms are nice to look at, but I think they would be hard to live with. :) Maybe, you should just play with what you already have and repurpose some of your things? What about a beautiful mirror to bring light into the room? Maybe, one area in the dining room that your eye can rest on, peacefully?? What if you got rid of the roman blinds, moved your clock away from the windows and chose drapes that are green. Choose a beautiful, elegant, lighter fabric (maybe a fresh green silk) that will accentuate the view from the windows and blend with the wallpaper. That way you are looking at the view, instead of the clock and curtains. If you need some privacy I would be tempted to install beautiful white sheers, as well. I think it would make you room feel lighter without changing everything... what do you think? :) I would be also tempted to change the items on the table if you want something lighter. Maybe some mercury glass pieces, silver, and glass for sparkle? :)BTW I LOVE your wood screen.
I love your rooms and hope you did't change a thing! Why do we always feel that we have to look like everyone else? Your rooms are inviting and warm and lovely.
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